To Stand Out
My name is #2.5. I was born 11 years ago in Raleigh, NC. Now I am going to the public middle school in my town, Stow, Massachussets. My family have been in this town for four years. I have some good friends here, like Olivia, Janice, and Megean. They are all very nice, and let me come over to their houses. I let them come over to my house every now and then.
Being a muslim alone, is not always easy. Sometimes it means you have to stand out. For example, as a muslim girl, I need to cover my head with a hijab. And If I am in the public, like in my school, I often get some questions or comments like: " Why are you wearing that?" or "What does your hair look like?"or sometimes bizzare, crazy comments like, " You look like a nun!" For the last comment said, I just react calmly and never make a big deal about it.
Or sometimes my friends in the school ask, " Aren't you hot?" in the late spring and early summer days, while they wear short sleeved shirts, tank tops, skirts and shorts, which of course not follow the muslim dress code, we have to follow. Which for boys, the cloth should cover from belly button to knees, and for girls, the whole body is to be covered except hands and face.
Another way to stand out is when ramadhan comes. What I do when I fast is to ask the teacher if I can stay in a classroom, library room, art room , or any other room unoccupied so I can read or even help the teacher during lunch break. But sometimes, I go to the lunchroom to talk with my friends. When I am in the lunchroom, every now and then, someone perks up to question, " Don't you want to eat?" I can't reply in any other way except," No, I cannot. I'm fasting." Fortunately, they stop asking me after that.
When I stand out, I might have some problems. To face these situations, I should stand up for myself, and have the courage to do what I have to do. It will be easier when I know more about my religion, like why I should wearing hijab, why I should doing fasting, and etc. So I have good reason to do all strange things that may be my friends thinking about what I am doing. And the highest reason is so Allah will be pleased with me, and put me in His Heaven .
Wearing my hijab doesn't mean I cannot do anything. Of course I can do anything that are positive, even doing sport! I play soccer, with my hijab. I can juggle (although I'm not very good at it) and dribble the ball, and make goals. I made a goal for our team on the last game during the spring season. Everybody was happy when I made it, especially me! And the more exciting news is that our team just lost once from seven games we had!
So don't be afraid to stand out when you know you are right because you just want to practice your religion. May Allah always guide us and make stronger our faith.